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The Body You've Been Fighting & What Happens When You Stop
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from being at war with your own body. Not just the pain, but the effort of bracing against it. Of white-knuckling through the day. Of treating every symptom as a problem to be controlled rather than information to be listened to. This episode is about what happens when that relationship starts to change. How the Disconnect Develops Lindsay describes a coping pattern she sees regularly in people with chronic bladder and pelvi
Kami Abdullayeva
Jun 143 min read


From Reactive to Responsive: What Self-Compassion in Chronic Illness Actually Does to Pain
Self-compassion in chronic illness tends to get filed under nice but not essential. This episode makes a very different case, that it is one of the most direct routes available to changing how the nervous system responds to symptoms, and that the evidence for it is genuinely robust. The Pattern That Keeps Showing Up Both Lindsay and Saoirse see the same thing in their respective work. People with chronic bladder and pelvic conditions who push through everything. Who never ask
Kami Abdullayeva
Jun 123 min read


Trauma and Chronic UTI: The Connection That Clinical Settings Are Still Missing
Most urology clinics don't screen for PTSD. Most appointments with a urologist don't ask about trauma history. Yet when Lindsay McKernan's clinic began offering optional PTSD screening, 42% of the people who completed it met criteria for the condition. That is not a peripheral finding. That is a signal that the overlap between trauma and chronic UTI ( as well as bladder and pelvic pain conditions more broadly) is something the field urgently needs to take seriously. What PTSD
Kami Abdullayeva
Jun 103 min read


Your Bladder and Your Emotions Are in Constant Conversation: Here's What That Actually Means
Most people will readily accept that stress lives in their shoulders or their jaw. The idea that it also lives in their pelvis and that the bladder and emotions are in ongoing physiological conversation tends to land differently. This episode makes the case clearly, warmly, and with the science to back it up. A Field That Was Missing Dr Lindsay McKernan coined the term neurourology to describe something that other areas of medicine had already developed but urology had not: a
Kami Abdullayeva
Jun 83 min read
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